The Perfect Night Out: Valentine’s Rituals for Couples

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This Valentine’s Day, join us for a romantic ritual for couples to connect body, mind and soul, in Love. With the support of delicious, fair-trade, organic Cacao, the renowned heart-opening medicine–that is also an aphrodisiac–you will be guided to connect deeply through couples’ love rituals, light breath-work, and what’s known as “transfiguration,” a Tantric eye-gazing practice.

Your energetic body enlivened through sweet, welcoming practices, you will settle into presence with your partner, to feel into the masculine and feminine essence in each other.

It’s easy to see only what we present on the surface, but we all want to be seen, valued and celebrated for our deep beauty and inner gifts. You may come away surprised: seeing an aspect of yourself or your partner you were not aware of. You may reveal aspects of yourself that you’ve been neglecting–sometimes desire, sometimes masculinity, sometimes femininity—and realize that you can let the blocks go and embrace more range within yourself.

In this romantic, colorful couples’ ritual, you get to:

–Express your love and devotion in a playful, creative way.

–Turn down the volume on your thoughts and meet in in vulnerability, confident that you are more than enough for your beloved.

–Feel into the depth of what lies just beneath the masks you may feel you have to show to be loved, and feel seen as a loving human animal in your embodied complexity.

–Enjoy the deliciousness of high vibe cacao, the bliss of breath-work, the pleasure of shared sensuality, and the depth of stillness and witnessing!

Come soften your body and hearts that might be stiff and worn out from the pressures of prioritizing the mind and surviving in the intensity of modern life in the Bay Area. Be ready to leave feeling refreshed and radiant, and to continue your Valentine’s Lovers’ Night at home.

Jena la Flamme is a leading Sacred Sexual Empowerment coach.

Her teachings show that pleasure is not a contradiction to a healthy, fulfilled life, but an absolutely necessary, essential ingredient. Jena’s mission is to spread the knowledge that our bodies are sacred and so is our pleasure, sensuality and sexuality. She preaches that when we embrace these dimensions of ourselves with trust, self-love and dedication, our lives flourish.

Through her private coaching, eCourses, movement journeys, meditations, transformational workshops and ceremonies, Jena helps women and men reconnect with their bodies as wise, intelligent, intuitive, pleasure-loving animals.

During her ten year struggle with food, weight, and bad body image, Jena despised her body and was highly suspicious of pleasure in general. This lasted until she discovered that her issue wasn’t that she was having too much pleasure, it was that she wasn’t having enough! As she learned to trust the wisdom of her body and to trust pleasure, including her sensual and sexual appetites, she came to peace with food, her body confidence soared. She discovered the power of her sensuality and sexuality and started enjoying both to the fullest!

Since embracing pleasure as a discipline and guiding principle in her life, Jena devoted herself to showing women, men and couples around the world how to be in tune with the innate, pleasure-loving, sensual wisdom and sexual genius of their bodies.

Jena is the creatrix of the Sensuous Goddess Pleasure School, which teaches women to love and adore their bodies, and fulfill their capacity for pleasure and orgasm, and the author of the ebook “12 Mistakes Almost Every Woman Makes Before Unleashing Her Orgasm.”

She is also an expert in pleasurable weight loss and published author of Pleasurable Weight Loss: The Secrets of Feeling Great Losing Weight and Loving Your Life Today.

Jena’s unique approach to pleasure, sensuality, sacred sexuality, body confidence, pleasurable weight loss and pleasurable living, have made her a much sought-after teacher. She has been featured in Elle, Glamour, The New York Times and Prevention magazine. For more information, visit her website: