Conscious Dating Experience | NY Queer

about this event

About this Event

humhum brings you a virtual conscious dating salon.

BIPoC Individuals, you’re invited to use the discount code BIPOC for 25% off your ticket.

humhum is a platform for virtual conscious dating—this particular event is a dating experience for all women, non binary folks, and trans folks who’d like to date and meet one another.

For people located in the greater NYC area.

This is a facilitated in-person conscious dating salon. This experience turns speed-dating on its head, slowing it down so we can tune into ourselves, and one another. humhum uses mindfulness, movement, and conscious dialogue conversation styles to support you to connect meaningfully and playfully with others. We practice connecting with curiosity and presence in service to our intentions to date while releasing attachment to outcomes.

We’re teaming up with Bloom app so you can connect and build community with some of the cool humans going before the experience. Download the Bloom Community app to start your journey.

Play, flirt, and experience connection. Open your heart and cultivate the heart/mind qualities that support healthy relationships:



Personal accountability





Non-Attachment to outcomes


Large Group Connection: we start off in a large group with facilitators to guide an ice breaker and gentle movement

Breath and Meditation: we’ll connect through guided mindfulness and grounding

Multiple Breakout Sessions: Enjoy 3-4 person small group dates with others in community. Speed-dating, but slower, and mindful.

humhum reminds us of the sacredness of relationship, providing a safe, high-vibe container to practice connecting face-to-face in ways that realign us with our own essence.


Enjoy the process of dating

humhum feels like a valuable use of time regardless of matching outcomes. We practice connecting with curiosity and presence and release attachment to an outcome.

Connect meaningfully with others

Practice listening, and be witnessed— experience vulnerable and light-hearted interactions with others via guided discussion, shared silence, and play. We engage our bodies and minds, rather than just eyes and brains.

Practice, learn, evolve

Learn tools like mindfulness and reflection to reconnect with yourself while meeting others. We cultivate discernment, presence, and curiosity

The vibe? Novel, mindful, connected.

Email with questions about this experience, or sign-up here to reserve your spot. We look forward to seeing you!